Dark Room is an old party game where the lights are turned off for five minutes and everyone in the room can make out with someone in the dark and then shuffle and never find out who it was.
What is it, truly, to admire a woman? To look at her and feel inspiration. To delight in her beauty. so much so that all your defenses crumble, that you would willingly take on any pain and any burden for her. To honor her being with your deeds and words.