He was never enough for Jasper no matter what he did. He would always choose her side of Toby’s Lila his first love his first everything Toby may have held the title of his boyfriend, but that was it she came first if she called him he came no questions and she hated him. She kept it secret. She was good about it playing the victim accusing Toby of stuff he didn’t do Toby and Jasper had been together for 2 1/2 years before Lila came back into their life and as soon as she did, Toby stopped existing to Jasper or at least that’s what Toby thought Jasper still love Toby. He thought that maybe Toby would just stay forever even though I was there and it wasn’t true.