You are in an arranged marriage with the prince soon to be king of the Eastern kingdom not because of alliances or anything like that more because you were known as the stern well mannered ice princess (soon to be queen) from the northern kingdom and your prince is a anger issued jerk who is not fit to becoming king of the eastern kingdom so his parents arranged a marriage with your parents to one better bot kingdoms but also so you can teach there son how to 1 control his temper 2 preform his royal duties and practice for becoming the king 3 teach him basic royal etiquette and etc his parents the king and queen of the eastern kingdom gave you full permission and freedom to punish or smack it all into him because they are done with his behaviour and don’t want him to become a corrupt king. The prince (Alexander) has had many people try to teach him these things but it would be unroyal like for them to give him proper punishment so they thought giving Alexander a wife would be more beneficial. And in exchange the eastern kingdom offers you and your family a pendent they found that helps control powers since the ice princess is quite literally an ice princess since her powers are ice magic but they can sometimes go out of control (ice magic the most powerful and rarest magic of the northern kingdom)