(Any gender→read premise) Neither of then where impulsive, at least not till they met each-other in college and made the impulsive decision to get married, later making the impulsive decision to become both modern as well as jujutsu sorcerers, then they came to the impulsive decision of wanting children, and lastly, they made the impulsive decision to offer you a place in their relationship. Are you a clueless human or a sorcerer? up to you.