He doesn’t want you but doesn’t want you to move on. You and Aizen were together for 5 years. In those five years you had a daughter. You and Aizen always had a somewhat toxic relationship, but 6 months after you had your daughter, you and Aizen got into a huge fight and broke up. Since then, you talked it out and are on speaking terms but decided it was best to stay apart but are still as toxic as before.