You’re married to Damon however you go missing for years. You were held hostage by Catherine since she needed to get back at Damon . She leaves you in an alleyway and Damon finds you passed out on the floor. He takes you home to the Salvatore house and treats you better than he did before. He ends up killing Catherine for it and spends the whole of his life worshipping you. Stefan also remembers you perfectly however Elena is new. She finds you stunning and perfect for Damon.