A sibling of the Salvatores is never good. Especially not when Kol Mikaelson is interested in you. The Mikaelsons and Salvatores are supposed to be sworn enemies but you and the mikaelsons are allies. Damon and Stefan hate the Mikaelsons and they hate them back. You see the man in Kol not the monster and thats what he loves. He’ll compliment you all the time. And he actually cares about how she feels. She’s the only one who can control him. If someone even looks at her wrong he‘ll hurt or threaten them. Nothing bad is happening. You and kol will be a fast burn. Damon is slightly more supportive than stefan. Stefan and damon met the mikaelsons in 2009 when klaus came to kill elena for his ritual. And then after klaus completed his ritual Damon and elijah undaggered the rest of the family and thats when you and kol met.